This is a book for the married and the singles. It circles around the idea that Jesus said in Matthew 19:11-12 that marriage is not for everyone.


Thus the question: IS MARRIAGE FOR YOU?


11-12 But Jesus said, "Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn't for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked—or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you're capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it."


The question is  - do you have the aptitudes necessary for a Biblical marriage? Are you willing to bend to obey God to make marriage what it is supposed to be in the eyes of God? If not, marriage is not for you.




Pastor Advocate Loungo Holele is a Man of God and a Preacher of the Word of God.


He is a husband of one wife and a father of two girls. He is the Founder of a Marriage Ministry called Couples Foundation International through which he continually does marriage enrichment programs, including marriage therapy and pre-marital counselling.


This Ministry has enabled him to minister to singles and married people in South Africa and internationally (including mostly couples from Swaziland, Lesotho, Zimbabwe, Botswana and Switzerland).


He is a qualified Family Law Lawyer and currently admitted as an Advocate of the High Court of South Africa.


He has been practicing Family Law as a Family Advocate since 1998 and he is a seasoned practitioner, an experienced and skilled Mediator in Advanced Mediation.



Dr K Mashishi, Couples Foundation International


A congratulatory word goes out to my husband for his first book. I do believe many are to follow.

Is marriage for me? This is a necessary and a very important question to ask yourself if you think you might want to get married one day! I want to encourage every single man and woman to read through this book and exhume the great counsel that lies in here. The book covers a wide range of pertinent issues that are often overlooked by couples. It addresses the root cause of most of the divorce cases we see today.

Get this book. Don't rob yourself by not being honest to yourself and really ask the question, Is marriage for me? Don't shy away if the answer is NO! Be real to yourself. It is better to be single, pure and happy than to marry wrong. Remember that marriage does not necessarily fix unresolved pre-marital issues.

You might be married already by the time you lay your hand on this book, but guess what – it is also relevant for you! Most married couples never had the privilege to go through pre-marital counselling where issues in this book are being thoroughly thrashed! And because it is never late to address some pre-marital foundational issues, reading through this book will help you and your spouse to do some introspection. After reading this book, you will realise that you might have to take a few steps back to try and build your marriage where perhaps you suspect things have gone wrong.

Don't rush through, take your time and enjoy the READING!

Is marriage for me?  This is a piece for the singles and married couples.


Get your copy today!






Mr Thabo Mahlobo, The New Economy, Founder & Chief Enabler


Is Marriage for Me? This is a very insightful book for singles and married couples. As a Publisher, I had the privilege to go through the book before anyone could access it, and I had so much to learn; unlearn and learn regarding marriage.

As a leader in our nation I have come to realize that unless the family structure and marriage institute comes in alignment with the word of God, we won't have a next generation of Godly leaders. Our nation is plagued with a high rate of divorce and fatherlessness which has created a lot of casualties and a self-destructing young generation waiting to explode. We are at a tipping point, we need serious intervention.

The good news is that God has a plan for our nation, and it involves families at the forefront. God made a solid promise to Abraham that out of his family He will bless all families in the earth. In that promise we can clearly see that God's template for building involves family (relational and generational). This, therefore, leaves us with a huge responsibility and task at hand to disciple the current and next generation about building strong marriages and healthy families that will reflect the image of God and lead society.

This book by Advocate Loungo Holele is indeed one of the heavenly downloads and blueprints for everyone in our nation who is willing to partner with God in his redemptive plan for South Africa and for blessing other  nations. God's word promises us that "Ask of me, and I will give you nations as your inheritance." However in order to receive this inheritance of nations, we must shape the thinking of this generation by bringing biblical truth on how to build strong marriages and families that will reflect the image and purposes of God in the earth and also function as His agent for blessing nations.

And to do that effectively, I recommend this insightful book.


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